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Where Does the Joy Go?

Published October 15, 2017 by Ashley Townsend

As the years pass, where does the joy go? The earth hasn’t changed, the world doesn’t play more unfairly than it did before, and the sun and stars are still constant. So what changed to make the spark disappear?

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I was inspired to write this post after I heard someone say, “Life just loses its sparkle as you get older.” I wanted to respond with, Life is wonderful, how can you say that? But later on that night, I realized that, tragically, this can be true. The reality of adulthood takes over—less free time, bills, responsibilities up the wazoo (and using the word wazoo is no longer “age appropriate”), broken hearts, stress, deadlines. If you let them, these things will slowly leech the joy and adventure from life so that you’re just living each day on autopilot, waiting for it to be over so it can inevitably begin again. The day-to-day becomes tedious, and eventually, the dawn turns into something that you dread.

This harsh reality really bothered me, and I wondered why it should be that the joy and excitement of life should end because a new chapter of life begins. But does it really? I began to realize that the magic that exists in the world doesn’t disappear, rather we let the cares of this life distract us to the point that we’re too exhausted to look for it when it seems scarce.

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As children, everyday seemed to hold a bit of mystery and excitement, but we’ve become too focused on more money and success, the idea that maybe a different relationship or occupation would complete us, or a million dollars would solve all our problems (or an extra 8 hours in the day to write my work in progress *cough*). That’s not to say a few of these things wouldn’t be nice, but it’s untrue that our lives would be perfect or “complete” because of these fleeting things. Discontentment breeds jealousy and greed and a restlessness that nothing can satisfy. I’m not exempt from the “if-only” idea, but I am a firm believe in the magic of everyday things and the hope that it produces, and the excitement of a new adventure.

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I have to admit that I’ve never understood people when they say that the love between them and another “simply died.” Call me naïve, but the only way that can happen is if no one tries to save it. Love is like a flower—you have to care for it so that it continues to grow and flourish, even if it isn’t as young and beautiful as it once was; if you ignore it and forget it exists, it will die. The same goes for the belief in the excitement that occurs in life: we have to choose to look for it, especially when it seems impossible to find because that’s when we need a bit of magic the most.

 

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Just this week I was having a difficult time finding that spark of joy after a tough week of stress and feeling overwhelmed and inadequate. I was sitting there in traffic, grumbling about the sun in my eyes, and then as I glared at it for another minute, I suddenly saw how beautiful the sunset was. I had spent the entire drive home complaining about something that, since I would have been caught in traffic anyway, should have been enjoyed. The rising and setting of the sun is some of the most obvious magic you can find, and I had almost let it pass by unnoticed because I was too caught up in the bustle of life, the competition to get one more car ahead so I could race home to—what? Drudge the next day?

Nuh-uh.

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God did not put us on this earth to work ourselves to death earning money that disappears all too quickly and to lament each day He’s given us. Every morning our eyes open is a miracle, and my challenge to you this week is to remind yourself to seek out the miracle in today. Easier said than done, right? Trust me, I’ve been there and am still there sometimes, struggling to find the joy in the things that exist around me. But it’s there, even in the small things—the leaves shifting color, the falling rain against a window, meeting a writing deadline, a new dawn brining with it a clean slate. And when you feel you can’t see the magic, be bold and create your own! Climb a mountain, explore the sea, take a long drive with the windows down while the rain is pouring, find a new bookstore (umm , bibliophile!), try something you’ve never done before. This life was intended for us to learn and explore and live it. We just have to choose to keep our eyes and hearts open to the magic of the everyday and to not let our sparkles—our inner light—die out.

So, where does the joy go? It’s been there all along, though it shifts forms like a chameleon and is sometimes tricky to spot. But if you keep on the lookout for it, the world might surprise you.

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Who Wants to Hear Some Exciting News???!

Published June 19, 2016 by Ashley Townsend

Come hither, come hither! (wherever “hither” is) I have some exciting news! Drum roll please.

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DEFYING SHADOWS IS OFFICIALLY OFF TO THE PUBLISHER!!!

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After rushing to get the final round of edits done–moving past burning eyes, late nights, coffee abuse, and a serious lack of social engagements–Defying Shadows (click here to add it on Goodreads) is officially ready to go to print. WEEEEEE!!!!!!

It has literally been a decade from the start of this series to getting Rising Shadows published (see where it all began here), seeing Chasing Shadows in print, and now sending off the final book in the trilogy. I am crazy excited to share it with you all (July 2016 release date TBA), but it’s also a little strange to know that this series has come to a close.

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Of course, I’ll read it when it comes out (say, 20 or 100 times), but I’ll never get to write a new scene between Sarah and Will, never laugh at Karen and Seth’s antics (the badger moment you will experience in Defying Shadows), and never sigh with confused emotions when Damien breaks/mends my heart a thousand times over.
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“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times” sounds pretty appropriate for how I felt doing that final read-through. But although it is incredibly bittersweet to send my little word-child off to the presses all on his lonesome (yes, I laughed, I cried), it’s also really exciting to have the chance to dive into new series and novels that have been gnawing at my writer-mind for so long. Plus, I can always go back to visit Sarah and the gang in Serimone because . . . badum da dum!!! . . . yet another surprise:

RISING SHADOWS IS COMING OUT IN PAPERBACK!!!

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That’s right, Ink Smith requested the rights to have the first book, so it will be re-released in paperback in mid- late-July along with Defying Shadows.

Sebastian is basically me with the whole Team Cap over Team Iron Man rivalry XD

Soon, I will have the ENTIRE Rising Shadows Trilogy on my bookshelf, looking all pretty and fabulous, and you will too! And because Rising Shadows will be revamped in paperback in a month, I figured the oldest sibling in the family needed a new look. I’m not going to ask for a show of hands (because I can’t see your hands), so I’m just going to assume I can drop another bombshell on you today and REVEAL THE NEW COVER FOR RISING SHADOWS!!! ^_^

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“Would you entrust your future with a hero of the past?”

I know, it’s fabulous, feel free to fangirl.

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The incredibly talented Elegant Stylus (click here to stay updated on future designs), who imagined the drool-worthy cover for Defying Shadows, also decided to revamp the cover for Book I in the trilogy, and I am LOVING it! Feel free to share around, and I am waiting with baited breath for the moment these lovelies can all grace my shelf, side by side. I might even have an entire room for them. Hmm. Something to consider.

Now, I'm taking a full day to organize my bookshelf and get back to Since You've Been Gone by Morgan Matsen. Yep, I'm going to read an entire book this week and listen to music and not have a schedule.

Week 2: Joy

Published September 14, 2012 by Ashley Townsend

“Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds.” James 1:2

Eternally optimistic. This is one of the character qualities that I strive for in my own life, so practicing being Joyful this week sounded as easy as pie. I mean, I’m fairly Joyful most of the time, right? It will just be like any other week. As soon as I decided to start this Fruit of the Spirit Challenge, I knew I wanted to use the verse above. I actually hadn’t thought of it in a long time and had to look up the reference, so I was surprised it even came to mind. But then I looked at the verse—really looked at it—I finally understood that it wasn’t saying to just smile and laugh when life goes your way. Actually, quite the opposite! No matter the circumstances, consider all of it a Joy. Everything. Not just the things that would make anyone smile, but be Joyful in all things. I also came to realize that it wasn’t about begrudgingly accepting the circumstances for what they were or appeared to be. No; “Count it all joy” forced me to find the silver-lining in everything, and that’s when this simple challenge got a little more complicated.

Day 1 went by delightful and Joyful, and I figured that was a good sign for the rest of the week. But, almost inevitably, life threw a few curve balls that tried to darken my usually sunny disposition (I’m saying that for dramatic affect; my skin doesn’t actually glow . . . But my pale legs sometimes reflect light back that outshines the sun and knocks planets out of orbit. Wait! We’re getting off track!). But I guess this wouldn’t be much of a challenge if it wasn’t challenging. I’m sorry to say that I probably deserve a C+ on the Joy scale for this week, so I hope the rest of your fared better than I did.

It seemed everywhere I turned, there was something to bring me down a few notches. Even the little things that don’t generally faze me pushed every button I have. Almost the instant this week started, it seemed like my Joy scale flipped upside down, and I admit I wallowed just a tiny. Then last night (the epiphany always seems to occur at the last second!) I was sitting outside reading because I was feeling restless, and suddenly it hit me: Joy is a choice. Sure, it’s easy to be happy when things are going your way. Who wouldn’t be? But what about when life doesn’t seem so great? Count it all Joy, right? I admit that I sort of rolled my eyes when I came to this conclusion, wallowed a moment longer, snapped my book closed, and went inside with a smile on my face. It took a few minutes for the mopiness behind the smile to fade, but the longer I made an effort to be more cheerful, the more I honestly felt Joyful. It wasn’t until I sat down to write this that I realized I was actually Joyful towards the end of the night. So I guess what I learned is that Joy is all about choice, and also perspective. When the power goes out, kids will make a tent in the living room and roast marshmallows over candles, while their parents freak out about what they’re going to do if the street lights are down when they have to go to work tomorrow because they hate four-way stops. If you look hard enough, and sometimes you have to search very hard, you can find something to smile about, like making a lack of power into an adventure. Sometimes you even have to create your own silver-lining. But that’s the beauty of Joy: It’s always there if you get creative and are willing to find it.

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